The Talk of TJMC

A Hug Remembered – One of the great gifts of serving a congregation is the opportunity to hear people’s stories.  Because I am, “a minister,” people share things with me — often things that are very personal, and very profound.

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A Minister’s Musings: Why is it so hard to listen … and hear?

Last night I attended a public forum hosted by the Blue Ribbon Commission the Charlottesville City Council called into being for the purpose of deciding what to do about the large and prominent statues of Generals “Stonewall” Jackson and Robert E. Lee.  Earlier this year a high school student started a petition to have the statue...

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A Minister’s Musings: Bullies

Driving in to work following the first Presidential debate, I heard a commentator describing the different views of the United States that he’d heard the night before.  Of Donald Trump’s he said that it was “negative” and “dystopian,” and that it was as if he saw the US as “the...

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Special Congregational Meeting

TJMC-UU Special Congregational Meeting Sunday, October 2, 12:45 pm in the Sanctuary All Members: Join us for a specially called Congregational Meeting to vote on adoption of long-term public witness in support of the Black Lives Matter Movement and Racial Justice. Childcare will be provided. Our Youth will offer a...

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Children’s choir announcement

Dear parents, Your children, aged 6 – 12, are invited to join the TJMC children’s choir! Rehearsals will be held on Sundays, 10:30 am – 11:05 am, in the sanctuary, and will start on September 18. There will be no rehearsals on Oct 16., Nov. 13 and 27, Dec. 25, or Jan. 1....

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A Minister’s Musings: Can you help me understand?

I was once advised that asking someone “why” — as in “why did you do that?” or “why do you think that way?” — tends to make people feel defensive.  It’s better, then, to ask, “Can you help me to understand … ?”  Most people, after all, respond positively to...

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