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Covenant Groups

Updated 8/8/2003

"The entire experience has been wonderful.  I've made new friends and had the opportunity to explore deep issues in a safe and stimulating experience."

--Participant in 2001-02 Group

TJMC launched its covenant groups in Fall 2001.  Here are what some of the participants in the previous two years had to say about what they liked about their covenant group experience:

"I had been attending church for about a year and was seeking a way to make a deeper connection to the church community. This has provided that connection."

"I treasure the opportunity to get to know other TJMC members in a more meaningful way. I enjoyed visiting everyone's homes, sharing food, laughing and crying."

"I learned so much about myself and others. It helped me explore a variety of issues that I wouldn't have delved into in such depth."

"I appreciated the level of trust and sharing in the group."


What is A Covenant Group? 

A covenant group is a small group of 8-12 people within a congregation who meet regularly for the express purpose of:

  • Forming deeper, more intimate relationships
  • Sharing spiritual struggles and growth
  • Deepening religious commitment
  • Ministering to each other
  • Supporting each other
  • Learning from each other


How Is A Covenant Group Different From Other Small Group Activities?

Covenant groups work for some and do not work for others.  Key to the covenant group experience is having a clear expectation of what a covenant group is and is not.  A covenant group is:

  • Supportive and yet not a support group;
  • Not a formal class and yet an opportunity to learn from peers;
  • Reverent and yet not a formal worship experience; and
  • Not a social club and still an opportunity to make and deepen friendships.


What Happens During A Covenant Group Meeting?

Every Covenant Group agrees on its own format and rituals. Generally, meetings include:

  • Shared meal
  • Opening words/ ritual, such as a chalice or candle lighting
  • "Check-In" time for each person to share, uninterrupted, how/where they are at this time
  • Discussion, sharing of UU-themed materials and short readings
  • "Check-Out" time for each person to share parting thoughts
  • Closing words or ritual

 
Where Can I Learn More About Covenant Groups?

Augusta Maine UU church:  http://home.gwi.net/~uuccaug/sgm.htm
(articles by Glenn Turner, NE District minister and Calvin Dame, minister of Augusta church)

UUA Interconnections: Small Groups Help Build a Stronger Congregation:
http://www.uua.org/interconnections/membership/vol4-1-membership.html

Covenant Group News, a periodic online newsletter by Rev. Bob Hill of the SW District: Read past newsletters and subscribe at
http://www.swuuc.org/Bob%20Hill/Bob%20Hill's%20Page.htm

Thandeka's Center for Community Values, "A Covenant Group Sourcebook":     
http://www.the-ccv.org/
    Click on "projects" 


What Is The History of Covenant Groups At TJMC?

Covenant Groups were first formed in Fall 2001 at TJMC. We will be forming new groups this fall and a number of groups from the 2002-03 year will be continuing and adding new members in the fall of 2003.

The Covenant Group Coordinating Committee helps coordinate, evaluate and promote the activities of covenant groups within TJMC. To learn more about covenant groups, please feel free to contact us.

Sally Taylor, chair
434-295-8083

David Takahashi Morris, Minister
434-973-3484


Signing Up for a Covenant Group

To sign up for a Covenant Group, please complete the Covenant Group Registration Form.

Covenant Group Feedback

To provide feedback after participating in a Covenant Group, please complete the Covenant Group Feedback Form.


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Thomas Jefferson Memorial Church Unitarian Universalist
717 Rugby Road
Charlottesville, VA 22903 [map]
(434) 293-8179